Julie is shocked by the black, shapeless mass of a garment when her soon-to-be daughter-in-law informs her what to wear to the wedding. Julie, however, decides to handle things herself rather than waiting for Elizabeth to make the ultimate decision.
“That girl is going to give you a run for your money, Julie,” my friend Gloria said when I told her about Elizabeth, who would soon become my daughter-in-law.
Oh, without a doubt, I said.
Elizabeth was my Jimmy’s friend and we used to get along so well. She would grin and start a nice little conversation. But her whole attitude changed when he wasn’t.
I made some tea and remarked, “It’s like she becomes a different person, Glo.”
Elizabeth would always cut me out by becoming aloof and chilly. We were so close that I always worried whether she felt intimidated by my position in Jimmy’s life.
“However, that simply cannot be true,” Gloria remarked as she helped herself to the cookie jar on the counter. “You haven’t been the kind of bossy, domineering mother-in-law. It is evident.”
Of course, I agreed with Gloria.
For Jimmy’s sake, I always attempted to overlook it, whatever the reason. But then things took a much more drastic turn when the wedding planning began.
Elizabeth has everything planned, but she might want to know what you think about the flowers, Mom. She also mentioned wanting to view her mother’s gowns. She will therefore most likely stop over and take a peek at your wedding attire. Is that acceptable?
“Yeah, that’s absolutely fine with me,” I replied.
Nothing was bothering me. I thought that the lovely yellow dress I had found was ideal for the situation. It was sophisticated, well-chosen, and gave me confidence.
Elizabeth, however, scowled when I showed her.
“I apologize, Julia,” she uttered. “But that dress isn’t appropriate for your age and weight,” she stated in a tone that was rife with disdain.
“Remain calm,” she said. “I’ll make the ideal dress for you. You are aware of my sufficient clothing-making experience.”
“Are you sure?” I asked, spinning around in the dress to show her how much I loved it and to give her a closer look.
“Yes,” she replied. “Yes, without a doubt. I need my wedding to be flawless since I have a vision for it. In addition, I’ll be organizing my mother’s clothing.”
She gave me a dark sack that had no shape a week later.
“What is this?” I whispered.
It appeared to be a dress worn in mourning from a century ago. I stung with embarrassment, comparing it to the gorgeous pink gown her mother would be wearing.
Was this the lady who would become my daughter-in-law in a little while?

I was lying awake that night, gazing at the ceiling. Elizabeth would believe that she could treat me disrespectfully forever if I allowed her to do so now.
I informed Gloria over the phone, “I know I’m right in this.” “I know that if I let Elizabeth walk all over me, then nothing is going to change.”
“Julia, do what you need to do,” she instructed.
I dressed in the black “bag” dress and arrived early on the day of the wedding. Everyone was hustling around, preparing. In addition to Elizabeth’s hair and makeup specialists scurrying around to get to her dressing room, there were people racing around with floral arrangements.
There was mayhem.
However, I maintained my composure, grinning and extending a warm greeting to the guests. I even allowed Elizabeth’s mother to brag about her gorgeous pink gown.
As she ran her hands down her garment, she exclaimed, “Isn’t this just gorgeous?” And to think Elizabeth had it all figured out for me! Although she asked one of her designer pals to make mine, I know she made yours by herself. How charming!”
“Yes, it’s really lovely,” I forced a grin.
I excused myself to visit the restroom as the ceremony was about to start.
“I’ll be right back!” I stated. “I just want to freshen up before we walk down the aisle.”