“Slow down, cowboy. This is getting good!”

Almost one in four women wish their partners would spend more time on oral sex. A rushed approach can ruin the moment. A better method? Start slow and gentle—use circular motions with your fingers and gradually introduce your tongue to build anticipation.

“Take control. I’m just going to have fun.”
Over half of the women surveyed prefer when the man takes the lead during sex. Eye contact and dominant positions like missionary are often favored, not just for the emotional connection but because they offer better clitoral stimulation. A mix of deep and varied thrusts goes a long way too.

“Oh my God, is he coming so soon?”
While 70% of women are happy with how long sex lasts, premature ejaculation can be frustrating. Since women generally need around 20 minutes to reach full arousal, jumping the gun can leave them unsatisfied. Gentle, extended foreplay can help bridge that gap.

“Okay, time to think about Ryan Gosling.”

It might sting a little, but the truth is, about half of women say they fantasize about a celebrity during sex. It’s not personal—it just helps them relax and escape stress. A good way to keep her focused on you? Give her a sensual massage to get her in the mood, body and mind.

“I have to take matters into my own hands.”
Roughly 19% of women say they regularly touch themselves during sex, and nearly half do so occasionally. While some hesitate out of concern it might offend their partner, many men actually find it sexy. So if she’s reaching down, chances are she’s just trying to turn up the heat.