“Meg didn’t respond to Kate right away,” Harry wrote. “She was overwhelmed with wedding planning, and more importantly, dealing with the drama involving her father. The next morning, she replied that our tailor was available. But that wasn’t good enough.”
He shared Meghan’s message at the time: “Right, and I told you the tailor has been standing by since 8am. Here. At KP.”

Prince Harry recalled a tense moment before his wedding, when Meghan asked Kate, “Can you take Charlotte to have it altered, as the other mums are doing?” He claimed that Kate, who was also 43 at the time, responded by saying that all of the bridesmaids’ dresses needed to be remade. According to Harry, he later found Meghan crying on the floor, overwhelmed by the situation.
In his memoir, Harry wrote that Kate came by the next day with flowers and a card to apologize.
However, some reports suggest Kate may have had her own reasons for reacting the way she did — reasons that came under intense public scrutiny after Harry’s book was released.
Kate’s perspective
When criticism started to mount against Kate for allegedly making Meghan cry, a royal insider offered some context. They explained that Kate had recently given birth to Prince Louis and was emotionally fragile at the time. The insider also confirmed that Kate did, in fact, apologize to Meghan the next day.

According to other sources who spoke to The Telegraph, it was actually Kate who ended up in tears after her daughter’s bridesmaid dress fitting — not Meghan, as previously claimed.
We may never get the full story, but let’s be honest — the drama is too good to ignore.