Early Doubts About Meghan’s Intentions

In the weeks before the wedding, Anson claimed the Queen was still uncertain about Meghan. “The jury is out on whether she likes Meghan,” she recalled the Queen saying. Anson also expressed her own doubts, suggesting Meghan may have orchestrated the relationship.

“My Jemima”—Anson’s affectionate nickname for the Queen—“was very worried. Harry is besotted and soft when it comes to women. We hope Meghan is genuine, but we’re not convinced she’s truly in love.”

Tensions Within the Royal Family

After the wedding, Anson claimed Meghan began to distance herself and Harry from Prince William and Kate Middleton. According to her, the Queen noticed friction, particularly between Meghan and Kate.

“Meghan, William, and Kate aren’t working well together,” Anson told Bedell Smith. “That’s something the Queen said—especially in regard to the two women. It’s troubling that so many people are questioning if Meghan is the right fit for Harry.”

She went on to say, “The problem is, Harry isn’t particularly strong or bright, and Meghan is both.”

Sussexes’ Departure and Ongoing Debate

Following their marriage, the couple welcomed their son, Archie, in 2019 and stepped down from royal duties the following year, relocating to North America.

While Harry and Meghan have not publicly addressed Anson’s remarks, they have always insisted their relationship with Queen Elizabeth remained warm even after their royal exit. Royal biographer Omid Scobie supported this narrative, telling Entertainment Tonight in 2021 that the Sussexes maintained a good connection with the Queen and Prince Philip.

“We’ve seen Harry speak fondly of them, including during his interview on The Late Late Show with James Corden,” Scobie said.