“Mom, I’m sorry. I wasn’t thinking when I invited you to stay. Lucy has a point. We’re tight on space. I promise to get some furniture for the basement to make it comfortable for you.”
I didn’t want to live in a basement. I wasn’t ready for a nursing home yet. So I just did something about it myself.
I pulled my bags to the car and drove to my niece’s house. I stayed there for a week while I looked for a house to buy.
The house was already for sale, and I knew I’d have plenty of cash to buy a small apartment for myself after it was gone.
My niece helped me move in after everything was set up, and I felt strong. I might not have needed family as much as I thought I did.
Edward was worried about me being by myself, but I told him I would be okay.
Not long after, I moved into my new apartment. It was a cozy one-bedroom, just right for me and the cat I wanted to adopt. Nice thing was that it was already set up, so I didn’t have to think about anything.
Then Jack called and asked Lucy and me to have dinner together. It made me wonder what they wanted from me as I drove to their house. As we ate dinner, I told them I had moved out on my own and bought an apartment.
“I thought you were staying with Mia,” Jack said, referring to my niece.
“You can’t be serious!” Lucy both yelled at the same time.
“I did stay with Mia until I moved. I needed my own space.”
It turned Jack red when he said, “You said that you want to be around family, so I offered.”
“Yes, but if it meant being shipped off to a nursing home or having to stay in your basement, I think I’m better off alone.”
After that, I left.
After a few weeks, I got my cat.
But I also changed my will to leave everything to Edward. Even though I told them I didn’t need the money, he keeps putting it in my account every month.
“A son must help his Mom,” he said.
I said no to moving to another country with him when he asked. At least for now, I had to be close to where Henry sleeps.
I went from having problems in the basement to having my own cozy home. Life sure does throw you for a loop.
Would you have done those things if your child had given them to you?
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