She added, “I think it’s time for my mom to benefit from us too. She needs this money more than you do now. After all, my husband’s money is also my money.” 

Hearing those words, I was furious.

My DIL is a stay-at-home housewife. She raises my grandkids and has never worked. This money is my son’s money, and I am more entitled to it than her own mother. | do not care if her mom needs to improve her health and get in better shape.

What should I do?

Sincerely, Ruth